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Message: <blockquote data-quote="soulseaker" data-source="post: 554240" data-attributes="member: 10679">Dont know about this pathology things. But this is my experience.I been with my ex for 3 years, For the first year very nice to each other, I always think of something to make her happy. Buy her present.For second year, feeling become deep. Go to trip together. Start to make her presents since i already have no idea to buy gift to her. She always forgot or too lasy to buy gift for like my birthday and others occasion but i forgive her cause very to be mad with her.Third year, things start to be like a straight line. Nothing much to do together. Try to patch things up. Too busy with each other works. Lasted few months from the first time we knew we are going on a straight line and talks things out.Then like the song " hou sam fan sau" The reason: I pampered her too much, being too nice to her and it is not fair to me. She is making me suffer from the way she treat me. (This is what she told me)I dont know why but I said i respect her decission. Still sent her back home after we brake up.Didn't contact each other for almost one year.Now become normal friends, still got go out and yam cha together.Both of us remain single until now.Love is give and take. How much you give it wont mean how much you will get. What is done is done, what happended is happended.My advice is: Always have something new to do once in a while.All you need to ask your self is:1. Have you do anythings bad toward your relationship.2. Have you do enough for your relationship.3. It is worth it to you for what you do for your relationships.</blockquote>