Wah...a lot of youngsters in here, interesting! I'm 24 and I'm going through the same thing as you guys are. One thing though, no one brought up wedding cost yet! For the typical Malay guy, you would need at least RM 30k before you can even think of marriage ( which I think is absolutely absurd!). I have a serious GF and I'm thinking of getting married soon (benda elok jgn lmbt2..lol)..but then, no money! And I'm not even thinking of a house or anything yet..sigh....I know it's pretty early to think of marriage given that people tend to get married at 28,29,30,etc, but for me, it makes the most sense. I spending money for going on dates weekly, and given that she lives quite a distance from where I am (I'm in KL, she's in Seremban)..there's fuel cost to think about also, adding to cost for food, toll, and what not. So, the way I see it, getting married is the next best thing..but of course that doesn't mean I'm eager to start a family or anything, so don't misunderstand....children are a long,long away in the distance.