Dc.Glozz,word of wisdom

[headache]

All hail the great love Guru, Glozz! :bow:
He, the great one had spoken and I'm with him.
Now, get back to work! :D

 

[wannabe]

My good fren had a same situation couple of years back. Was left by his gf, she got married. My fren's life was shattered. Few yrs down the road, this gal divorced , came back to KL n look for my fren just when he had recover from shattered heart. My fren love her so much and accepted her back. 1 year later, history repeats itself, this time my poor good frens here is tremendously hurt 'till wanted to commit suicide.

Moral of the story : If it happens once, the second is never far away.

Just my experience only though.....

 

[lynnnnnn]

Good horse never return to eat the grass.......



cheers,
Lynnnnnn

 

[ROADRAGE]

Originally posted by lynnnnnn@Apr 9 2004, 07:32 PM
Good horse never return to eat the grass.......



cheers,
Lynnnnnn

what does this mean??

anyway guys, thanks for all ur hep but like e_ti said...its easier said than done. In some ways i have been harboring intentions to be back with her but another part of me says that its not worth it and leaving someone who has sacrificed so much for me is not something im used to doing...

like wannabe said i considered suicide but that was in the past...things just have a way of coming back at ya when the wounds start to heal...i cant seem to make a decision and the thing is im just postponing it waiting for the situation to take care of itself....i understand thats probably not the wisest thing to do but i cant help it

bravery is not one of my stronger traits and i guess im just delaying the inevitable and running away from the problem

 

[DannyBoy]

hey fren ....dont think about suicide at all ...we r both hardcore football fans. I dont wanna lose a fren to chat n share opinions about football man. GIRLS only mah ...slowly think loh. Maybe she has really changed leh. Or consider the girl near u lah

 

[lynnnnnn]

Good Horse never eat regrown grass... (sorry spoken english) :D


don't look back.. like forget about it look instead to the future or dumping a guy/gal then find another loh. ;)



cheers,
lynnnnnn

 

[devil]

there are plenty of chun chick available..
don't just bcos of a single individual and wasted whole life.

FYI, u can BUY a short moment with any girl u preffered as long as u know the way to goes around...

bottom line.. not worth it at all .....men can find pros while woman can find gigalo .... hehehe !

 

[seperlinky]

move on

 

[Angelz]

:D haih taikor..

I really cant help much.. cos im in almost the same situation like yours... haih.. around 2 weeks ago.. my gf dump me.. fark.. :( even we only had 3 years plus relationship but then its still cuts like a knife... haih.. for the pass 2 weeks it was the darkest and the most pressure week.. cos my finals.. started last week too.. i nearly gave up and everything.. :unsure: i feel so down...

She dump me because she say she wanted to be a single for awhile but then at last i manage to force the truth out of her... its was another guy.. haih.. she's not even meeting the guy yet.. but she have feelings for the guy.. but i know tat she still love me.. haih.. :huh: i also dont know how to explain

but lucky i have frens who are very caring.. they advise me and advise me.. haih.. only a few days ago i manage to stand up.. and continue with mylife.. ;) i learn that there is still many girls out there.. haih... but i still love her.. :ph34r: but wat has been decided is decided... i guess ... if few months later she want me back.. i think i wont take her back.. how can i give my heart to some one who had cut them up to million pieces for me.. ? :o

hey guys.. sorry maybe this abit off topic.. but i just wana type some stuff out.. =p hope u guys dont mind.. cheerz.. single life rox too.. no boundries.. to anything

anyone Going zouk tonight? hehee :rolleyes:

 

[ROADRAGE]

Originally posted by Angelz@Apr 10 2004, 07:58 PM
:D haih taikor..

I really cant help much.. cos im in almost the same situation like yours... haih.. around 2 weeks ago.. my gf dump me.. fark.. :( even we only had 3 years plus relationship but then its still cuts like a knife... haih.. for the pass 2 weeks it was the darkest and the most pressure week.. cos my finals.. started last week too.. i nearly gave up and everything.. :unsure: i feel so down...

She dump me because she say she wanted to be a single for awhile but then at last i manage to force the truth out of her... its was another guy.. haih.. she's not even meeting the guy yet.. but she have feelings for the guy.. but i know tat she still love me.. haih.. :huh: i also dont know how to explain

but lucky i have frens who are very caring.. they advise me and advise me.. haih.. only a few days ago i manage to stand up.. and continue with mylife.. ;) i learn that there is still many girls out there.. haih... but i still love her.. :ph34r: but wat has been decided is decided... i guess ... if few months later she want me back.. i think i wont take her back.. how can i give my heart to some one who had cut them up to million pieces for me.. ? :o

hey guys.. sorry maybe this abit off topic.. but i just wana type some stuff out.. =p hope u guys dont mind.. cheerz.. single life rox too.. no boundries.. to anything

anyone Going zouk tonight? hehee :rolleyes:

wish u all the best in ur finals...i flunked my finals just because i was thinking bout her too much....hope u manage to get thru these dark times...sigh

 

[Wayward]

I wish I knew an effective way of getting over somebody.

and not thinking about certain things.

or brainwashing myself.

or make me forget about something completely.

i'll take either one of the above.


Wayward

 

[NOSkill]

For god's sake, Mona is a man!!!

 

[Wayward]

i call you mona :)


Wayward

 

[glozz]

Originally posted by ROADRAGE@Apr 9 2004, 10:51 PM
anyway guys, thanks for all ur hep but like e_ti said...its easier said than done. In some ways i have been harboring intentions to be back with her but another part of me says that its not worth it and leaving someone who has sacrificed so much for me is not something im used to doing...

like wannabe said i considered suicide but that was in the past...things just have a way of coming back at ya when the wounds start to heal...i cant seem to make a decision and the thing is im just postponing it waiting for the situation to take care of itself....i understand thats probably not the wisest thing to do but i cant help it

bravery is not one of my stronger traits and i guess im just delaying the inevitable and running away from the problem

If it was easier done than said, there would be no problems in the world. Everyone would be rich and prosperous and happy. However, since it is easier said than done, people do not do what they need to do to solve a problem properly.

Instead, they allow themselves to be influenced and affected by the problem. And as such, things get worst and more and more people get hurt. It's a cycle.

Isn't it time to break the cycle? Just because something's hard to do doesn't mean you shouldn't try to do it. Do what is right, not what is most easy to do. Another thing hard to practise, I know, but doesn't mean it cannot be done.

Just move on man. There isn't any point in wasting any more of your self on something which has gone and happened. Life goes on. At the end of the day, time goes on, we get older. Whether we like it or not. As such, you don't have a choice regardless of whether it's easier said than done or not. 'Cause if you don't do it, you'll get worst. So you might as well just try doing it and learn one thing at a time. Whatever that doesn't kill you can only make you stronger.

At the end of the day, all of us struggle to make hard decisions, and problems WILL happen, regardless of what happens. But in life, what matters not is the problems that happen, but HOW YOU GO THROUGH the problems. That will shape who you are. Nothing's easy, that is of course true, but if you don't solve it, things will only get worst. So you might as well just try to solve the problem.

And suicide's not the way either. It's easy to just look at the problem and say "ahh heck it, i'll just commit suicide", but at the end of the day, someone will bear the brunt of your actions, in this case, your parents. How would you answer to them when you have to face them in the afterlife?

And take this as words from someone who has tried suicide. Don't waste your life so easily, for do not take for granted of the things you have.

Time heals all, but you first have to move on before time can do it's work.

Good luck man.

PS: Attached is the prayer of the late General Douglas McArthur for his son.

A Father's Prayer for his son

Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak,
And brave enough to face himself when he's afraid;
One who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat,
And humble and gentle in victory.

Build me a son whose wishbone will not be where his backbone should be;
A son who will know Thee - and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.

Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge.
Here let him learn to stand up in the storm;
Here let him learn compassion for those who fail.

Build me a son whose heart will be clear, whose goal will be high;
A son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men;
One who will learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep;
One who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

After all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may not always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously.
Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of true greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, and the meekness of true strength.

Then, I his father, will dare to whisper, "I have not lived in vain."

 

[glozz]

Originally posted by headache@Apr 9 2004, 07:00 PM
All hail the great love Guru, Glozz! :bow:
He, the great one had spoken and I'm with him.
Now, get back to work! :D

eh, what great love guru all this eh? I think you've got the wrong person.

The posts I've made were just the babbling of a person who went through lots of failures. At least I can say that someone learnt from my mistakes. :lol: :lol: heh.

 

[ROADRAGE]

glozz:how old r ya? i just turned 21 not long ago

 

[Angelz]

wah the hell?? haih..

this afternoon around 1 lidat.. still sleepin cos the day before that went to zouk.. then my ex came to my hse.. and she woke me up.. than i like blur blur adi.. then she say i give u one month time to change la then maybe that time i got chance.. then okay la i happy.. =p then we went out eat lunch together, walk walk at shoppin complex.. then after dinner went to her hse.. while she was taking her bath. i check her hp for messages.. ish ish.. ta guy which she had a crush on..(tats y i got dump) message her.. " i dont think i would wana get into a relationship so fast. if we got faith then next time we sure together wan one day" then one more is " thanks lately ive been very happy with u but i think i dont want to have a relationship before my exam" then i was like stone there adi.. haih..

guys help.. wat the hell is this? i fell like those spare tire.. noppl want her only she comes back.. haih.. i actually still love her alot but if u ask me to get back with her then i would think twice.. haih.. i already.. manage to look forward and now she tellin me this.. haih.. sadness..

 

[CcL]

wah tats pretty fked up man.
such a gal... better not... if not when they have "FATE" then u'll be toss aside AGAIN...

 

[glozz]

Originally posted by ROADRAGE@Apr 12 2004, 02:11 AM
glozz:how old r ya? i just turned 21 not long ago

Myself? I think I've posted my age before. :lol:

I'm 23. Damn, I can remember the time I was 21. *sigh*. heh. :lol:

 

[headache]

Don't play2. Glozz is wise old 23! :)