Dc.Glozz,word of wisdom

[alantan]

thanks dr.glozz... :rolleyes:

 

[XaMaX]

aijor...already see DrGloazz..faster go take action la...

 

[alantan]

will do action..must see ehr mood ma..

 

[glozz]

Like I said, it's not dependent much on any factors, except you.

Like the saying goes, "there's never a right time."

Good luck.

 

[alantan]

okie...well./...same problem..fear...

yesterday i spend an hour talking on the phone with her..i tot i would say sunthin out la...but then in the end still no words out..

but i think i did sumthin stuopif..i gave hints..huh..

 

[glozz]

Originally posted by alantan@Apr 18 2004, 05:22 PM
okie...well./...same problem..fear...

yesterday i spend an hour talking on the phone with her..i tot i would say sunthin out la...but then in the end still no words out..

but i think i did sumthin stuopif..i gave hints..huh..

Fear's normal larr. I truly understand.

However, it's about confronting your fears man. There's a reason why you're a man, be a man.

Remember, just do your best, and do it as best as you can. There's nothing else that can be done. Just remember what I've posted above. And then do your best.

As for hints, very 50-50, but just tell her. It's much better that way man. Good luck.

 

[XaMaX]

alantan..maybe you should go meet Dr.Gloaz at the futsal park......kekekekee..get some hands on practical

 

[alantan]

I DONT' PLAY FUTSAL AR..I PLAY GOALIE..OUTDOOR FIELD...chanllenge me

 

[glozz]

You do?

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Thanks, now back on topic! :lol:

 

[alantan]

ok well..dr.glozz..
need to ask you something...
sweet talk...anf bla bla..really important/
i'm bad with it...i'm seriusly not good with it..

as for me...i'm not so a sweet boy..i'm those old fashioned boy which uses the old fashioned way to fall in love with the girl...

out of ten boy..i'm the worst in the 'court' business...
eveyone is doing so well//and i'm the only one that can wait 2-3 years for one girl..
good or bad?

and about fear....i shouldn't let the fear tp bother me rite..let it be there and must learn to get used with it?fear is just there though...

 

[glozz]

Originally posted by alantan@Apr 19 2004, 10:25 AM
ok well..dr.glozz..
need to ask you something...
sweet talk...anf bla bla..really important/
i'm bad with it...i'm seriusly not good with it..

as for me...i'm not so a sweet boy..i'm those old fashioned boy which uses the old fashioned way to fall in love with the girl...

out of ten boy..i'm the worst in the 'court' business...
eveyone is doing so well//and i'm the only one that can wait 2-3 years for one girl..
good or bad?

and about fear....i shouldn't let the fear tp bother me rite..let it be there and must learn to get used with it?fear is just there though...

Hmm, sweet talking eh? I think I understand where you're coming from.

I think you've misunderstood the whole process of courting. When trying to court, you SHOULD NOT do the most common mistake, which is NOT BEING YOURSELF. In other words, sweet talk = salesman talk = Complimenting just for the sake of complimenting = Corny, will only work in short term = NOT BEING YOURSELF!

Therefore, I am seriously against the notion of sweet talking. However, I believe in the notion of having a good, meaningful and fun conversation. This means being yourself, but also means allowing yourself to make the person you're talking to, be as comfortable as possible with you. The best method for this is by using humour. However, it is quite difficult for me to explain to you communication methods via posts as it is quite hard to explain.

Therefore, I'll just put it like this. Just be yourself, but understand how to talk to people. It's about making them comfortable and like talking to you. Be yourself, and use humour. Be light and yet sincere and understanding, as well as polite. Be as open-minded as possible since communication involves the free and common exchange of thoughts and opinions, however, do not compromise on your principles.

It's quite simple really. As for fear, it's not about forgetting the fear or ignoring it, it's just putting the fear behind you, and just do what you need to do. Fear will always be there. It takes a man to accept his/her fear, and a bigger person to confront his/her fears.

Good luck man.

 

[alantan]

ok....dr.GLOZZ

i am never a good sweet talk person..so..i don;'t use sweet talk all the time..
very seldom...coz i know i'm not good at it...

i try to 'lum' her...few times la..only on the correct time...

i used to buy her thing until she ask me not too..(too late to realise she's not comfortable)

haha....guess i'm doing okay now...

 

[XaMaX]

guys sweet talk only to get women in to bed with them....

 

[alantan]

nurse xamax..how many time you've done it before? <_<

 

[glozz]

Apparently rather often, no? :lol:

 

[alantan]

kekekeke...nurse xamax...why no reply..
i tot you take over general talk with your evil plans...
hahahahah :D :lol:

 

[glozz]

Originally posted by alantan@Apr 19 2004, 12:02 PM
ok....dr.GLOZZ

i am never a good sweet talk person..so..i don;'t use sweet talk all the time..
very seldom...coz i know i'm not good at it...

i try to 'lum' her...few times la..only on the correct time...

i used to buy her thing until she ask me not too..(too late to realise she's not comfortable)

haha....guess i'm doing okay now...

If you're not good, don't do it. You'll just come across as a faker. Just be yourself man. Nothing much else you can do. If she doesn't like it, so be it. That's life.

For if someone doesn't like you for who you are, what's the point of her liking you?

However, it's also your responsibility to ensure you don't scare her larr. Buying stuff and treating her too well will definitely scare her. And show her that you're not being yourself.

Just be yourself man, and take it easy (except for the things i've already said, which needs to be done ASAP!! :lol: )

Anyway, good luck man.

 

[alantan]

YES dr.glozz

 

[Malaysian]

alan tan ,please feel free to me the DR. LOSER ..me myself..

the more u ask and post in here...the faster u become a loser like me.
Even GLozz and noskill know what happenned to me...

my problems and question gone pages and over 30 pages long..even girls that i knew from the net which i asked them bout my problems came across this forum which i dunno how.....did post her and her frenz advise...

in the end..Im still a loser till now..

Alantan...R u driving the charade?Stop asking shit..and work ur ass on..

GLozz already teach u what u should do...


just confess to her...cibai...wait lanciao ar?

 

[alantan]

malaysian...
hehe..i'm driving chrade..
fortunely..i'm not angry when you scold mebad words..but..
i felt haha..zth really do care for me...
fr.glozz...nurse xamax..and a starnger malaysian..

hmm..well...i will not forsake you guys..i'
ll do what i have to do...