Feerio : Hmm.. you a photographer that night ke? Even photographers need to eat and have time to dance. First few hours take lots of pics.. sit down to eat and later when the music starts, take a few more pics and go ask your girl out for a dance.
Prior to that, ask the girl you like for a date to go to the dance. Explain to her that you'll be the photographer for the night so ask her to bring along kawans.. so she won't be alone la.. By asking her to go, you are sort of 'booking' her to be your dance partner later.
Err.. if you are picking her and her friend up (which you should), bring flowers (nothing too big.. and roses usually are good) for her and give a single stalk to her friend. Make sure your car is clean and all too la. And if you can, borrow a bigger car for the night to pick her up. If she asks you if this is your car say NO and just tell her that since it's going to be a dinner and dance with her as your date, you wanted it to be more special or memorable. Low/small cars generally are a no-no as they usually don't allow girls to sit comfortably if they are dressed to the max in full length dress and heels and all.
Erm.. During the dance make sure you spend a lot of time with the girl (even tho u are taking pics, take pics of her and her posse la!) and don't leave her alone for too long. Make her smile with stories and jokes and talk to her.
Never ask "You alright?" too often. Its annoying. Top up her drink often, don't let her sit in one place too long, if you get a chance ask her to dance and if it comes to a slow number.. ask her to dance the old-skool way... which is :
1. Look at her and smile, stand up.
2. Bow a little and stick your hand out like asking for her hand.
3. Ask her if you could ask her to dance
If she's shy, encourage her a little and keep your hand out for her to hold and don't be afraid of doing this in front of everyone. All girls like a romantic so doing this in front of everyone would make others to encourage her too. When she does agree, here's a simple guide on how to dance slow numbers without making her feel awkward : (this is more modern, not old skool waltz type)
1. Keep close but not body to body, about an inch gap.
2. Guide her hands to behind your neck and yours on her waist.
3. Look at her eyes not her boobies and smile and talk if you can.
4. Shuffle from left to right until you can feel her loosening up a bit.
5. Avoid stepping on her feet, so shuffle.. don't lift your feet.
6. Focus on her eyes and when you shuffle, move around a little, don't be stationary.
7. Don't try to kiss her. Unless she's closing her eyes and doing the fish pout you NEVER try to kiss her.
8. Don't touch anything else other than her back.. ie-don't get all feely on her butt.
9. Don't care what other people say.. she's your date for the night, so don't let others cut in. Say "Sorry..I've got her booked for this dance". But if she wanna dance with someone else afterwards, by all means let her.
10. Try not to show any jealousy but do show you're interested with her by asking her out for more dances.
Ok.. at the end of the dance and all.. when she's ready to go (you can ask her if she's ready to make a move and you'd like to drop her home). If her friends want to tumpang by all means agree. But arrange it so you drop her last. In the car talk about the dance and how it was generally.
When you finally reach your girl's house ask her if she had fun that night. If she smiles and says yes.. then you can proceed to ask her for a movie for the next weekend (or whenever). If she says no ask her why and just basically joke about the issues and laugh it off. Then ask her for a movie date next weekend. Don't try to kiss her. Wait for her to get into the house then drive off. Oh don't forget to say you had a lotta fun with her la.
There. :rolleyes: tips for the day.